August 20, 2018

29 Things I've Learned At 29.


I’m about to be thirty years old. Yes, I said it. And I’m not ashamed, cause I still look damn good. But throughout all the years of me being on earth, I’ve learned some stuff. Here’s 29 things I’ve learned by 29.
  1. Many things in this world are beyond my control.
  2. I am very self aware.
  3. Being in therapy does not make you week...it shows your strength and willingness to be vulnerable.
  4. More people SHOULD be seeing therapists - they could use the help.
  5. You can only change someone if they're willing to change.
  6. I am worth way more than I give myself credit for sometimes.
  7. You should care what people have to say about you - (some) critisim can lead to growth and change.
  8. Not everyone is worth space, time, and energy in my life.
  9. Change can happen at any point of your life, as long as you're willing to make the change,.
  10. I am way too critical of myself.
  11. I need to work on myself before I decide to find a significant other - I want know to me before I bring someone into the chaos that is Monica.
  12. I strive the most when it comes to structure, but don't get on well with things that are loosely planned and all over the place.
  13. I hold serious grudges. I do not forgive, and I damn sure don't forget.
  14. I am not broken - I'm a work in progress.
  15. Animals are better than humans. End of story.
  16. Do not let other people bring to down into their river of misery. You already have hardships in this world, there's no need to bring in other people's nonsense into your universe.
  17. Change can be good. Don't let it scare you.
  18. It's nice to be nice.
  19. Ignoring someone who is clearly your enemy can upset them 1000% more than engaging in an argument with them.
  20. Despite humanity going to hell in a hand basket, there ARE still good people in this world.
  21. Cats are the most amazing pets to have. They're like mini humans with all their charisma and shadiness.
  22. I've just recently become more...social. I've low self esteem for a lot of my life, but now I feel better about myself and I'm less socially awkward.
  23. I really need to travel. I've never left the country and I've only been to the states in the tristate area.
  24. Don't toss the word "love" around. Only certain people can get that from me. Like a slutty vagina or penis, it loses all of its worth if you use it too much.
  25. I do not want to take pills for the rest of my life. I'm really trying to find alternative (and safe) ways to cope with my problems.
  26. Pete Wentz has bipolar disorder, and attempted suicide a few years back. Did not find that out til recently. See? Your idols are human and they go through human things. I'm glad you're still with us Mr. Wentz.
  27. I fucking love concerts.
  28. I want to make my body healthy and ready for when I get older. I should start now and clean up my diet/lifestyle.
  29. If I can live through this, I can do anything.

Well there ya go.... my 29 while being 29. Thirty, here I come!

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